hegemony

Oh, my god, no, no no no, I completely understand at the same time as I freak out and go "if only I had known," because -- yeah, jesus, that must be seriously shitty for you, to get treated like shit for something you did a long time ago and with a dear friend of yours, and then to have it publically rehashed all the time -- basically, this does not make me change the way I think of you, except for that it makes me feel like a jackass.

I don't know how many bingo squares I'm crossing off by saying any of this, but, yeah, wow. I am just really sorry. I think you underestimate the backwards-bending I will do to keep a friend. I'll be more careful as to what I link to and as to what I casually toss off in conversation.

I'm very glad you refriended me because if I hadn't already ♥-d you, the post you made for me in the 15-minute festival meant a hell of a lot to me, so! but -- if I make you feel uncomfortable again, intentionally or unintentionally, feel free to punch me in the ovaries. I seriously do not want to do that to a friend.

If it [negatively] changes the way you think of me that I am a big wishy-washy teddy bear when it comes to the actions of those close to me, ... well ... that would mostly be hilarious.